As several people have intimated, you're asking the wrong question.
Bad habits are FAR from cute His 'cute' obsession with milk turns into the bane of your life. ' and his tendency to forget (everything) is no longer forgivable. You're best friends You know you're best friends when you finish each other's sentences and have so many inside jokes that people think you're the 'weird couple'. Trying to impress isn't a priority anymore The courting's over ladies! The D*CK tendency After the one-year mark men are prone to the following: letting their guards down (a little too much), taking you for granted and pissing you off. Nights out become nights in You both get lazy about going out.
when i say i doubt our relationship, i mean ive considered breaking up with him at times because im unhappy and maybe he might realize what he has once its gone, or a more complicated version would be for him or i to move out. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2yrs and he's 40 and I'm 34. Yet play expands our ability to think, develops creativity, and gives us a sense of joy.
i can't seem to find the guts to break it off, and the communication part as been failing terribly.... Playing together in both structured and unstructured ways develops trust and engenders caring.
Dressing to impress, wearing perfume and matching undies - yeah that only happens on special occasions now. Teeth checking You need to know if you have food in your teeth and you're not afraid to ask him. Foreplay is non-existent You'd think once taught never forgotten, right? Furious eyes It's no joking matter, all you have to do is give him 'the look' and he'll know where he stands. Ordering take out and a movie marathon (of your choice) is more of your thing now.
Who are we kidding - he'll never stop trying to bypass foreplay! Open door bathroom policy Peeing in front of each other? Your bathroom time is far from 'private' anymore... He knows his mom pushes your buttons You hate it when she treats him like a ten-year-old. In fact, you're basically the only friend each other has.11. You nag him about being romantic with you Lets just say if you forget to buy her flowers on Valentine's Day you're in for a BAD night. No filter He's WAY less careful with his jokes, "You look pregnant in that." Not. Post-sex cuddling isn't important anymore Gone are the days when you lay there wondering what he's thinking about and if he really enjoyed it.